An Iranian refugee, whose estranged boyfriend used her hijab to strangle her till she passed out, has told Adelaide’s Supreme Court she is “confused” by his actions and was urged by other folks to drop the charges.
Qasem Gardi, an Afghani refugee, was discovered guilty by a judge of attempting to murder the then 18-year-old lady in October final year and will be sentenced next week.
The court heard how Gardi, 20, drove the girl to Para Vista and strangled her with her hijab and his hands.
The teenager, whom the ABC has selected not to name at her request, said the connection was against her family’s cultural beliefs and she felt she had lost their trust.
She arrived in Australia as a refugee from Iran in 2011 and stated she also struggled to trust others and was overwhelmed with worry and nightmares.
“I’m nevertheless tremendously confused by his actions,” she told the court.
“I located it very difficult to get my life back to normal, as I felt an outcast amongst my peers.
“I feel numb, disconnected and unable to trust individuals.”
She mentioned some people urged her to drop the charges.
They were young 17-year-olds in a totally free society bound by their own cultural difficulties.
Defence lawyer Ahura Kalali
“I have been below excellent pressure to maintain my experience unknown,” she said.
“Your actions and behaviours are unforgivable.”
Gardi’s lawyer, Ahura Kalali, said the connection had to be kept a secret since of the couple’s cultural backgrounds.
“It was due to their culture that the relationship had to be kept a secret and that was divisive,” he stated.
“In my submission, it was divisive for each of them.
“They had been young 17-year-olds in a totally free society bound by their own cultural troubles.”
He mentioned his client was separated from his quick family members at about the age of ten, and lived in Iran and Pakistan ahead of coming to Australia alone as a 16-year-old.
Mr Kalali mentioned Gardi was emotionally immature and formed a sturdy emotional bond with the girl.
“The relationship went properly to start with but it started to fracture and it appears that Mr Gardi found it really difficult to accept,” he mentioned.
“It also appears that at the time he had place all of his emotional bond into the complainant provided that he had been separated from his family members.
“He believed he was trying to do the proper factor culturally to stand by her.”
‘Garden variety domestic violence’
But prosecutor Lucy Boord stated Gardi’s actions amounted to a “garden assortment example of domestic violence”.
“It wasn’t an act that took place in a matter of mere seconds,” she stated.
“This was an act where Mr Gardi had a box cutter to restrain [the victim] to then take her away to a distinct place.”
She said the girl was strangled three distinct occasions in 3 ways — the very first two times whilst the automobile was stopped and then when he was driving.
It is not known why Gardi ultimately stopped the attack and called an ambulance.
Audio of the triple- call incorporated Gardi saying he attempted to kill her.
Gardi will be sentenced on December 18.
Topics: crime, law-crime-and-justice, domestic-violence, community-and-society, para-vista-5093